"Don't tell your daughter to dress properly, Tell your son to behave properly..."
As I stroll down every news paper, news channel or the social networking sites, all I see is the distress of women respect, dignity in the country where they are regarded as Goddess, though behind the curtains.
A visual impact senses around my mind which rages outward to ask the questions not only to the government, officials, or the national protectors but also to the Indian society.
We have been raised in a society which has neglected the existence of women power in the growing development and they have always been given a backward seat.
They were always considered inferior when it comes to comparing them with the male class irrespective of terms of mind or physical power.
The changes have occurred in the recent times but the liability of such changes are still restricted to the well developed metro political cities whereas the districts and villages still look to the under grown mindset of people. But it seems, that the development itself is lacking behind the virtues to protect the so called Goddesses of Indian society.
To the society?
What's the use of praying when the very next moment all you can do is to curse them?
Whats the use of loving when you can not protect them against hatred?
Whats the use of respecting them when all you can do is to put your hands up and can not protect their dignity?
To all men,
Where is your strength, courage when you cannot protect your sisters, mothers?
Where is your manliness when you can not respect a woman's dignity?
The girl you look at, try to put your mother, sister in that position. The matter will be clear.
Jumping back on the Indian society, where a girl is being taught to dress properly but a boy is never taught about respecting girls.
A girl is told to dress decently so that she does not attract boys, well Is it the same way, "Close your eyes and world will become blind?"
What we need is to change this society first, the laws, regulations and mind sets will automatically be changed.Because when you pray to those goddesses, pray with heart not with mind. And before you set a bad remark, sight to a girl, always remember, that your Mother/Sister is a female too.
A Respectful remark to every female, We RESPECT YOU IRRESPECTIVE OF YOUR CAST, CREED, COLOR.
Thanks for putting your thoughts and i feel proud i have a brother who thinks like that ...
ReplyDeleteThat indeed makes me proud :)
ReplyDeleteThankyou :)
let the thoughts hit soul of every one who read.....time to wake up and act
ReplyDeleteExactly.. After all.. Action speaks louder than words :)
ReplyDeleteYay man! You posted. Finally. =]
ReplyDeleteI didn't know how to tell this to you without sounding like a freak, but-
I. LOVE. YOUR. BLOG. >.<
Oh.. Thanks A lot :)
Deletegreat.... real thinking can bring out such thoughts, all ur blogs r worth commendable.... HATS OFF... Akanksha G3
ReplyDeleteThanks for the Appreciations :)
Deleteso true.
ReplyDeleteI wish everyone thought like this.:)
keep it up :)
That Means a lot :)
DeleteVery true! our generation can make difference in the future and the change starts from us!
ReplyDeleteThis is indeed a serious problem. It's time that parents taught a lesson or two to their ladlas.
ReplyDeleteTrue Indeed :)
DeleteTo me the probable reason for such behavior could be :
ReplyDelete1. Our slow judiciary system which takes long years for punishment. So people avoid taking judiciary help. People doing these type of crimes take the full advantage of this and continue further.
2. Social traits: If pickpockters or thieves, snatchers take away your valuables do you get banging from the society? But a molestated or raped woman gets the rudest possible treatment. So most of them hide it and unknowingly further encourages the criminals to continue raping.
3. Dowry system in the marriage. This buying selling thing sucks out the last drop of respect for women. I saw hypocrites who took part with lighted candle march protest after extinguishing the candles went to eligible brides house for a dowry demand session with the daughters father.
So true..very good post...
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Great blog...
And also, I so very agree with women being taught about what to wear and sons not on 'respecting women'...
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